Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Dealing with Strangers

diversity
Another profound benefit of getting away is interacting with people whom you typically would not be surrounded by. This is different from vacations where you hang out with folks from similar socioeconomic and educational backgrounds.

On the Patagonian expedition, there was diversity among my group. There were a bunch of burly men from Alaska who had all been friends for more than 20 years. One worked the North Slope of Alaska. He was outdoor-knowledgeable and tough. From what I could see, he slept with polar bears. I felt very sorry for those bears. Gertrude was from New York. Single and aloof, she was a good hiker who wanted to be an artist. She had to have come from money. Other members of our group were Richard, the photographer; Big Trevor, the stoic; and Martin, our always vigilant, incredibly knowledgeable and skillful mountain guide.
While on the Caribbean sailing adventure I lived with people I did not know beforehand; this gave me insights into how I deal with strangers. I noticed the parameters and barriers that I put up when it comes to people I do not know. It was easier for me to stay distant than to be curious about these strangers.

These are experiences I brought back to work. Being in a different environment gave me a new perspective on my everyday life. I recognized that there are different people beyond the ones I typically interact with. I am now more appreciative of what I have and of my life as a whole.

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1 comment:

  1. So great, Bruce! If more people would take on getting to know others, accepting them for their likeness to them and this is the big one -- their differences -- we would have a more productive, peaceful, and loving world.

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