Well horribleness depends on the context because context is critical. Context is the background conversation which surrounds circumstances and gives the circumstances meaning.
What was the context here? I took a cruise in the Caribbean with my 87 year old dad. We did something that he loves, sailing. I had the best time ever; it was a great experience. My dad and I went on an adventure together – and given his age – that was so very precious.
What is the context of your day’s activities? Are you surviving and going through the day or are you up to something? What is the meaning your work activities? The down side of being a human is that we create meaning automatically, without any conscious thought, just through reaction. However, the magic of being human is that we CAN create meaning consciously for the activities in our lives. Our activities can have meaning that lights us up and excites us. We do not have to settle for our automatic ways. We can ascribe meaning to circumstances.
Victor Frankl made being in concentration camps meaningful. In his book Man’s Search of Meaning. Frankl described his experiences in a Nazi concentration camp and seeing his wife and relatives killed. During a grueling and cruel march Frankl realized that love was the ultimate human expression. After he was liberated Frankl dedicated the rest of his life to establishing a psychotherapy school and working with people to find true supportive meaning out of disparate circumstances.
Nelson Mandela used his time in jail to support bringing down the South African Apartheid. While there, he established a university in prison that helped train leaders in the freedom movement. After eighteen years in prison he was offered his Freedom if he left South Africa and renounced the movement. He refused to leave because his imprisonment was making a difference both nationally.
While these examples are about extraordinary people, their ability to bring meaning to circumstances is something all of us can do. We do not call ourselves “beings” for nothing.
With these as examples imagine what you can do with your everyday circumstances and actions. What meaning for your work and your organization can you create? Then take action consistent with the meaning you create. Let us know what meaning you are bringing to your work life and organization. We look forward to hearing about it.
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